I Just Want Sparkles OK!?

 “One of the ironies which is fostered, at times innocently, in the Church, is the feeling we have that the spirit of the law is superior to the letter of the law because for some reason it seems more permissive or less apt to offend others. The reverse is true. The spirit of the law is superior because it demands more of us than the letter of the law. The spirit of the law insists that we do more than merely comply superficially. It means, too, that we must give attention to the things that matter most and still not leave the others undone.” 

This was a quote that My president sent us this week. We had zone conference and talked about the spirit of the law verses the letter of the law. I loved it! All of us really needed to have that conversation. Some take things WAY too seriously and others don't take things serious enough. Its all about finding the happy balance and being able to follow the rules and do something different if/when the spirit directs.

    Anyway this week was pretty good. Not much happened.

Wendy is doing so well! She loves learning about the gospel. We taught her the Plan of Salvation this week and when we were finished she said she was so energized and could find nothing wrong with it. At first she scared me because when we taught the spirit world and the fact that everyone gets second chances she seemed mad that the murders and "bad" people would get a second chance. I hoped that wasn't going to be an issue for her but after we explained the atonement more thoroughly the spirit testified to her that it would all work out. The spirit was so powerful as we taught about how the atonement covered all of us and that none were too far below its reaches. It testified to me how loving the Savior is and how merciful He and Heavenly Father are. To let even those that we feel have done too much to hurt others can still be forgiven and can be changed from the atonement. It was a neat experience for me. Wendy is so great and is making progress toward baptism which is really exciting! 

   Here is the sad news for thanksgiving. One of the investigators we are teaching doesn't have a place for Thanksgiving. Sad right? Well it gets worse. Not a single member wants to have her come to their home. I can 100% guarantee that not everyone is going to be out of town. Why the people don't want to be Christlike is beyond me. Anyway I was thinking about that last night and thinking about how sad it is knowing that someone is going to be alone because other people are too selfish. Then the thought dawned on me "If you are so Christ-like why don't you feed her?" I kind of laughed at the thought and then seriously said "Yeah why not?" so the plan right now is to see if we can get permission to take her out with us on Thanksgiving night. We have dinner at 3, we could easily go get something at denny's or ihop and share a meal together. Obviously it wouldn't be your typical thanksgiving meal but hey ITS NOT ABOUT THE FOOD! Its all about being together with family and being grateful for what I have. And what do you do when you are truly grateful for something? You share it! So Sister Barnes and I are trying to get permission right now. Hopefully things work out. I think that would be really great for this investigator. Mom I hope you aren't crying right now! Haha 

   Ok I don't have much time but I wanted to share part of a talk from conference that I absolutely LOVED! 

This is from the talk by Elder Klebingat. Its all about gaining spiritual confidence and how we can do that. That part that I loved the most was when he speaks about learning to "Embrace voluntary, whole hearted obedience as part of your life." I think I said this last week but I all of the sudden love the idea of exact obedience when you are home from a mission. Here there are several reasons why we are exactly obedient and we mostly think of the mission rules when we think about exact obedience. But here is the deal, we need to be exactly obedient when we are home too! We still have commandments that we need to keep and people to love! So here are a few of the quotes that really touched me. 

"Selective obedience bring selective blessings. Choosing something bad over something worse is still choosing wrong. Faithful observance of some commandments doesn't justify neglecting others. The Lord knows why you go to church-whether you are present in body only or truly worshipping. You can't sing on Sunday "O Babylon, O Babylon, I bid thee farewell and then seek or tolerate its company again a moment later. I love that last sentence. I think it might just be because that is my favorite hymn right now (Elder of Isreal #319). Really though! We can't be saying one thing on Sunday and do something totally different during the rest of the week! Do we wanted to be taken care of or not? When we are exactly obedient we are giving the Lord the ability to guide us to the places we need to be. We are showing him that we want and need his help every day. 

    He can't change our hearts if he does not have our hearts. That is against our gift of agency. It doesn't work that way. 

Unfortunately my time is up but remember who you all are! Keep doing the things that strengthen you and most importantly...remember WHO you are and WHOSE you are! You all should go and read the rest of the talk! He goes on to talk about how Satan tries to tell us that Heavenly Father doesn't love us because we make mistakes. He says "Ignore that!" I don't know if that is a direct quote but you get what I mean. No one is too far gone. All it takes is a willing heart. I  love you all!

Sister Skeeter

kahuna!

    We made THE coolest message this week. The four of us Sisters have been working together to create a message that is going to get the members motivated to read their scriptures and pray together. Something that has been lacking with almost all the families here. So we made Kahuna! He is a life sized cardboard man who has a shield of faith breastplate of righteousness sword of the word of god truth girded about his loins and the shoes of the gospel of peace. He is so cool looking! So our message is on the armour of God and how we need ALL of the pieces to be completely protected. We read from Ephesians 6:11-18 and discuss each piece but focus on the sword and shield. Think about it. Without those two pieces you really have nothing. I love that the sheild is faith because it is through faith that we pray to Heavenly Father knowing that He will answer our prayers. So we talk about D&C 10:5 which says that as we pray we are protected from satan and his followers. It makes sense that the shield would be faith. Anyway it is a fun message that took hours to prepare.  After we share the message we are taking a picture of the families with Kahuna and we will be making a big poster with all of the families to help the members see they are all in it together and can strengthen each other as they go. Pictures of Kahuna to come after the mission :)

 This week was a weird one for me. We did 10 hours of service which was fun and we were able to see miracles because of it. But first fun story. We were at this lady's home and it is not very sanitary to say the least. Mold and cat hair in places you wouldn't imagine. Anyway while we were there I was just picking things up off the floor and all of the sudden I realized I couldn't breathe very well. Of course at this point the lady comes in and starts telling us these long stories. The whole time I am trying not to be rude but eventually I told her that we just needed to go have our lesson outside. Don't worry mom! I am fine now I left in time so I wasn't weezing and my breathing went back to normal. We have face masks that we will be wearing now so it won't get that bad again. Anway, on to the miracles.

    On Tuesday we went to Thurley's house and while we were cleaning she says that her neighbor would like us to come serve her. Thurley told us that she has loved having us there to serve her and has told others about how great we are. The only problem is that this lady is in the Mesa Vista ward so we will have to see how that would work with the elders. That was just the small miracle. After we cleaned on Tuesday we were having a lesson outside and a lady came up to us and asked if she could talk to us. She has seen us around the apartment before and wanted to get some things off her chest. She told us some problems she has been having with her boyfriend and that she was scared to stand up to him. We told her of Heavenly Father's love for her and how He would give her the strength that she needs to do what is right. We were able to set up a return appointment and meet with her on Thursday. Just minutes after we started talking about doing how to begin teaching she looks at us and says "It feels like he is healing me already." We explained that was the spirit and that the healing she felt comes from this gospel. We were able to teach her about the Restoration and had a great lesson with her. She is excited to continue learning and really wants to know the truth for herself. She has a lot of great potential and we are excited to continue teaching her.

    As for my testimony: This week my testimony of keeping the commandments was strengthened. One of my biggest fears is going home and not having changed at all since I left for the mission. This week when my sister told me about the decisions of my other sisters I realized that I have changed. I was frustrated because I wanted them to know how important it is to keep the commandments and to desire to keep them exactly. I realized that when I get home I will still be trying to be consecrated to the Lord and keeping the Spirit with me always. I realized that I need that companionship all day every day. I was reading a talk by Elder Oaks called "The Challenge to Become". He talks all about how we need to be striving to become something and be truly converted instead of having a testimony and not letting it change us. I realized that I have changed. I have learned this week that we will still need to be consecrated when we go home. It will be in a slightly different way but it will still be drawing my nearer to the Savior and staying in the world but not being of it.

Ok, I think that is all I have to update you on. Love you all! Make good choices and make me proud!

Sister Skeeter

Fat Point

Hello Everyone! How are things going? This is going to be a pretty lame and short email. I don't have much time left. Oops. 

   Well, I am back in Santa Barbs. This time I am in down town, which is so different! This place is filled with crazies! Holy Cow. And let me just tell you, I have been touched more in the past week than I have my entire mission combined. My companion is very touchy feely which I have been forcing myself to allow because that is how she feels loved and then the people we teach are SUPER touchy too. We get hugs from strangers all day and then some of the people (who aren't always sanitary) kiss us on the cheek (they are usually wet too blech!!). Don't worry they are women but it still has been a lot for me to try and take in. Then there is our investigator who is blind. I will tell you more about that one when I am home....

    Anyway, the ward is interesting. They have some good people here. I don't know how many of you Rocklin people read this but for those of you from there the Downs are in my ward. So that is kind of fun. I used to see their daughter Tess at the plasma center up at school all of the time. Anyway we are just chuggin along out here. Doing as much work as we can. We talk to a ton of homeless people here which is kind of fun. I have a picture with a couple of them. I will have to tell you that story next week. And guess what I totally jinxed myself. When I was leaving Moorepark I was joking around with the stake presidency about the poor missionaries who have to cover Montecito (If you haven't heard of that place...it is LOADED! Think Bountiful homes up by the temple. Those are the kind of homes there...plus land.) Anyway, that is in my area now. So I have the poorest of the poor and the richest of the rich. Woo.

   Well, it is time for me to sign off. I was going to share a cool quote that I have in my scriptures but I left those in the car. So I need you all to look up the talk "the Challenge to Become" by elder Dallin H. Oaks. It is a great talk that talks about how the Gospel of Jesus Christ helps us to become something instead of just knowing something. It is really good. Anyway, I know the church is true and that Christ is at the head of it all!

Love you all! have a great week! Remember who you are and WHOSE you are!

Sister Skeeter 

Awkward is as Awkward Does!

Hey all! In case you were wondering, missionary work is so awkward! I will let you in on my weird thought process here. The other day we were watching the district videos which is about a district of missionaries and it basically just follows them around and interviews them. So as we were out walking this week I thought about what would happen if they recorded Sister Guthrie and I. I thought about the questions they would ask and how I would respond. Awkward came up and I could see them asking me what was so awkward so here is what I would respond:

1) Awkward is when you are walking down a street and your hand accidentally bumps your companions hand...(I can't stand when that happens. Every time it does I immediately grab my should strap on my purse and keep my hands far from hers).

2) talking to people about their dogs

3) watching little kids play because you have no clue what else to say and are hoping your companion will start up a good conversation

4) teaching the law of chastity to adults who are obviously not keeping that commandment.

5) boys.

The list could go on and on but I will stop there. There you go. That is what I think about sometimes when we are out walking. :)

Well we had transfer calls this week. And let me just tell you, I would WAY rather find out on Monday instead of Saturday. It is painful finding out so early. Hopefully that won't happen again. 

Oh! I forgot about Halloween! Ours wasn't very excitng. We were in by 7pm to avoid the crowd (which was weird because the crowd starts at 6. good thing thatt is when we had dinner planned!). Then we just did our weekly planning until it was time to do our nightly planning. Then we crashed at 10. Super exciting right? I am sure that story was good enough to interrupt me telling you about transfers...right!?

Well now I need to tell you about our costumes! We dressed up at normal human beings! So fun! We got to wear our jeans and t-shirts and talk to people. Ha not really we just did a ton of service that day so that is what we were wearing most of the day.

Ok, here is my little thought for today:

This week I was studying the Doctrine and Covenants in section 9 and it was all about Oliver Cowdry wanting to translate but the Lord telling him to wait until it is his time and that at that point he was meant to help Joseph Smith in a different way. I was really able to apply that to myself this week with transfer calls. I was hoping for one thing and got something completely different. I realized that it doesn't really matter what I want. I am needed wherever He puts me and I need to be happy with that. It doesn't have to be a huge leadership position to make a difference in people's lives. I am needed where He put me and that is where I will be most effective this transfer. It has brought me a lot of peace knowing that I am doing what He wants me to do.

The same goes for everyone. We need to compare ourselves to ourselves. We can't look at others and say "Oh they are so great and whatever and I am not" THAT IS NOT HOW IT WORKS! We are all good at something. An all powerful being does not have talent less children. As long as we are doing our very best in the situation we are in and turning to Him to know what to do, then we are doing exactly what He needs us to be doing. So stop comparing yoruself to someone else. It doesn't matter if they parent differently or if they have a great and stable job. Be where YOU are supposed to be when YOU are supposed to be there. Things will be great and it will all work out.

Ok, now that it is time for me to go...I am going to Santa Barbara! hehe yes I served right around there when I was in Goleta. I will be in the same zone as I was back then but now I am in the heart of the city. And guess what. Sister Hiapo will be in the same ward as me! And sister Woodland is going to be in my zone too! My little trainees are growing up! My new companion is Sister Barnes this will be her 3rd transfer so this will be fun! 

Anyway I have to go  now. Love you!

Sister Skeeter